A Valentines Massage for Her

A favorite Valentine’s Day gift is  a Valentines massage, and with good reason. There is evidence that massages can do more than simply help individuals feel relaxed—they can also lift your spirits. It has been demonstrated that massages facilitate the production of oxytocin.  Oxytocin is also known as the “love hormone,” which heightens emotions of social bonding.  And let’s face it, hands all over your partners body is intimate and etc etc.

It’s no wonder that massages are so incredibly adored as our skin is the largest sensory organ in the entire body.

So … you can gift your spouse a massage, or better yet, how about being the masseur for the evening!  Come on guys, let’s get organized!  Yes, I wrote this for guys but ladies, just reverse it .  But guys don’t commonly lavish this type of attention on their lady.  Therefore, it would be a bigger bang for their buck, so to speak.  Either way, read on and get prepared.

What do you Need?

To prepare, you will need to purchase massage oil or lotion, keeping in mind that your partner may prefer specific scents.

The next step is to set up a massage “bed”, which could be a flat tabletop, a padded exercise mat laid firmly on the ground (make sure to place a warm blanket or thick towel on top of it to make it more comfortable).

And whatever you do, remember the candles!  Awesome way to set the mood, and her favorite scented candles are required!  It will show that you understand her and what she likes, and she will be impressed by your attention to detail.

Eliminate Distractions

Make sure to eliminate any noise and distractions, by turning off phones, cell phones and other mobile devices, shutting off the T.V and if you have children, call Grandma to baby-sit!  This is a time meant for just the two of you and you want it to be as peaceful and relaxing as possible.

Warm Things Up

Also keep in mind that you want the temperature in the room to be comfortably warm.  Place a few warm towels near the area as well so that you can wipe your hands, prop your partners head or body more comfortably and in case of spills.  If she is cold, it’s a no go, I’m afraid.

Music

Turn on some romantic music, based on your partner’s personal preference. If she or he likes jazz, play some!

If they’re a classical or country fan, load up a CD with their favorite music. Just keep it turned down. You want it to be in the background with your hands in the forefront.

How to Massage

Ok first off, do a little research.  Go online to find some tips and tricks for the novice home masseur.  Do it, don’t cheap out by winging it.  I’m sure you can do an ok job, but take the time to learn a bit so you can go pro!  I left a couple of links to great articles to give you some guidance.  They are very good, so make sure you read them.

Work your way all over your partner’s body, taking your time.

Men: Read that again, take your time!  You want this to truly be a pleasurable experience for her, and for her to feel as though there is no hidden agenda. You are there to show her that she means the world to you and that you want to make her feel relaxed.

Consider adding fun props to the massage, including feathers, silk scarf or even a blindfold.

You can do this !    Get creative and put your own signature mark on this special night.

Click here  for a good read from wikihow.com  ; an article about some massage techniques.

Click here  to read about some tantric massage techniques.